In an apartment complex that I lived in Houston, there was a loose knit collection of about 10-15 singles.
I wasn’t getting all the details of the conversation due to noise at the pool and that fact I didn’t really care, so I don’t know if the two girls were jealous of Heidi getting the attention of these two men, or if these women were mocking these men as losers, due to Heidi rejecting them.
But the point here is not only was Heidi getting the attention of single men, but marriage proposals.
Fast forward 12 years, one child and one divorce later on my part. He would get a bonus if I joined, and I could join at a discount. At the top of the page, in about 1 inch high letters was the girl's name, then below that a 2"x3" photo of her and below that 3 or 4 paragraphs that she wrote of herself. I remembered a phrase of one sentence, it read, “34 years old, never married, no children.” I thought how could this be?
I said before I join, I wanted to see what the single girls in the agency look like. I started looking, when I got to page 7 or 8, I noticed the name Heidi. I knew of three men who wanted to marry her, and in the 12 years that had passed there must have been more.
How was it possible she never married given all the advantages she had?
What dating parameters did she employ that failed her so miserably that resulted in her being a childless spinster given all the physical advantages she had?