Seth Meyers addresses one of the biggest issues women deal with (and struggle with) when it comes to men.
Now, let’s apply the theory to the circumstance when he doesn’t call.Ask yourself what beliefs you have about him not calling you back. Do you say to yourself that you have the worst luck with men? That you’re the only one you know who doesn’t have a boyfriend?Figure out what beliefs you have about the fact that he hasn’t called, and then ask yourself if those beliefs are causing any negative feelings.If any of your thoughts or beliefs are negative, the hard work must begin: You must stop yourself from thinking those thoughts and tell yourself positive thoughts instead.By paying close attention to your thoughts and feelings, you will understand your reactions better and can see things in greater perspective. Oh, how dating sends everyone jumping to conclusions!A mentor of mine always says, “Dating is risky business.” It’s risky, of course, because there’s always the chance of getting hurt.