Out there in the dating world, it’s easy to run into the full spectrum of players, jerks, and flat out a-holes.Sometimes it can be difficult to know what kind of guys to avoid and what kind of guys you want to be with, spend your time on and invest your emotions in.So to help you navigate the often disaster studded dating pool, here are 11 types of guys to avoid at all costs: This guy is often really nice, which makes this toxic character trait that much worse.His insecurity is going to limit him in everything he does and everything in your relationship – he’s never going to trust that you like him (because he doesn’t like himself), he’s not going to believe in the long term chances of your relationship (because he doesn’t believe in himself), and you’re going to have to walk on eggshells around him all the time. Click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “Is He Selfish” Quiz right now and find out if he’s really selfish… He’s always looking out for number one, and if there’s ever a decision he has to make, you can bet he’s putting himself first.Why tie your life to someone who’s always going to put his needs before yours? Well, he could spend Saturday working on his resume so he can get out of his dead end job… He’s always in flirt-mode wherever you go, and he always leaves you wondering whether you’re the only woman in his life or whether he’s just sticking with you until he finds a different woman to charm.or he could play Call of Duty on the couch while drinking a beer. He’s not even willing to put in enough effort to put on clothes other than mesh shorts and a dirty tee shirt, so what makes you think he’s going to put in the effort to keep your relationship strong. He’s not going to change – and he’s not worth your time.
Trying to get a concrete plan out of him is like trying to get blood from a stone.
This guy is so unorganized he constantly lets deadlines slip and screws up the simplest long term plans. Listen, I’ll be the first to say that a guy’s relationship with his mom is one of the more important factors to look at in a relationship, but…
if he’s going to mommy for input on every single decision he makes in his life, it shows a lack of character on his part – and a danger sign for the future of a relationship he’s in. Think about it this way: he committed himself to someone to be with her for the rest of their lives, and yet here he is… If that’s how he treats commitment, why would you want him in your life?
This guy looks for a woman to latch onto so that he can have her take care of him and all his needs – while he puts zero effort into the relationship.
He’s kind of like the lazy guy, in that he doesn’t want to put any effort into anything – but unlike the lazy guy, he wants you to put in all the effort for him.
Do you want to wait on this guy hand and foot while he takes you more and more for granted? This is the guy who thinks that anyone who’s the slightest bit different than him is “crazy”, who treats alternative lifestyle choices as evidence of deviant character.